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Age 33. Single, Native American hot chick (hence the blog title). I am a left wing, liberal, treehugging Democrat. I have made the choice to become a single mother and am doing so as a foster parent. I will go head on to put the most at risk children first. This is my place to share my journey. I hold nothing back, whether it be joy or heartbreak.

Friday, March 12, 2010

Again and again

So.............the boys went home. What a total clusterf#4k. This whole placement was nothing but crap the whole time. The casemanager was so bad at communicating that we didn't even know about a 48 hour visit until we were two hours late getting them there. Then when the boys came back, they smelled like pot smoke and I who is 3 yrs. old was acting out oral sex in the bathtub and touching J who is 2 yrs. old inappropriately. I reported this to the casemanager and she all but ignored it. So, I went to her boss who suspended the visits to investigate. After all this, the judge still ordered the children to go home, they have been in foster care for over two years. When we went to the outside agency to do the transfer, the rude facilitator said to my mother and I, "you can go now". I was summarily dismissed without so much as a thank you. And now I have to go to DCS Monday to talk to the family casemanager and her sup and my licensing manger about what went wrong.
Yup, I am now in waiting for more children. Nothing will stop me from putting the children first.